Pros and Cons of Marriage from a Man’s Point of View

Pros and cons of marriage from a man's point of view - why he does, and does NOT want to get married.

MARRIAGE – What a big decision it seems right? You may be thinking that we men are lucky because we don’t really have to go through this point in our lives. Well you are quite wrong about that. We men also go through this big decision in our lives. That’s right, contrary to popular belief, … Read more

Why Won’t He Marry Me?

why won't he marry me? Why won't he propose?

What Is Keeping Him From Popping the Question? So many women spend an inordinate amount of time trying to analyze the reasons why their boyfriends won’t pop the question and finally commit and get on one knee with a ring like this: Women who have so much love to give, and who labor intensely to … Read more

Should I Give Him an Ultimatum?

should you give your boyfriend an ultimatum to marry you? Maybe yes... maybe not - depends on some very important factors

Sometimes, things come to a head, and it may feel like it’s time to issue some ultimatums in your romantic relationship. Ultimatums should occur after a long and thorough thinking phase; they should never be rash or impulsive. After all, if you’re prepared to offer him an ultimatum, you need to be prepared to live … Read more

Why Won’t He Commit?!?!?

The age-old question of “Why won’t he commit” has no single answer. Since every guy is different (although they all seem to be cut from the same cloth at times), it’s hard to generalize about the reasons why he’s so wary of making a commitment to you.

The age-old question of “Why won’t he commit” has no single answer. Since every guy is different (although they all seem to be cut from the same cloth at times), it’s hard to generalize about the reasons why he’s so wary of making a commitment to you. If you two seem very happy together, and … Read more

Ever Miss a Guy That Was Horrible To You?

It’s a weird phenomenon when you KNOW you shouldn’t be with a certain guy, and you don’t even want to be with him, but yet you have these moments when you actually miss him.

Have you ever experienced that?

It’s not abnormal to have moments of missing your ex…

Ever missed an ex that was NOT good to you? Here's what might be happening I’ve been in relationships that were 100% wrong for me on so many levels…. probably even bad for me…and sometimes, I have these moments where what we had comes back to my in such a vivid and happy way that it just plain freaks me out.

It brings me to a shuddering questioning realization, “Oh my God, what if I was meant to be with him?”

After reading up on the topic and really thinking about it, I’ve learned that those feelings have very, very little to do with the guy in question OR that relationship, but everything to do with ME.

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What’s The Best Age To Get Married?

I was reading this old article over at Cosmo (I know, I shouldn’t read that…lol) that talked about the so-called “best age” to get married.

According to the article, you should wait until you are at least 25 before tying the knot. Supposedly, those that wait til this age or later have a better chance of a successful marriage.

Hmmmm… ya really think so? Let’s talk about this.

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What’s The Best Age To Get Married?
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What If He Says He’s Not The Marrying Type?

Ever heard a guy say, “I’m not the marrying kind”? I know I sure have! So what does it mean if YOUR man says that to YOU? Let’s talk about what that little statement might mean in the big picture.

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Ok, he says to you that he’s not the marrying type or he doesn’t believe in marriage.

All fine and good except that you ARE the marrying type. What is he trying to tell you?

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I Want To Get Engaged and He Doesn’t – Now What? How Do I Change His Mind?

It can be a very emotional time when you’re involved in what you feel is a committed relationship with a mutual long-term goal of marriage – and he doesn’t.

What do you do if YOU want to get engaged and your boyfriend does NOT want to? (or acts like he doesn’t want to get married – or doesn’t want to marry YOU) This guy has some great answers for all that.

Let’s talk about that.. what you need to do. The things you can do – and what you should NOT do.

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My Ex Won’t Talk To Me – What Should I Do?

Many times readers email me and ask, “Why won’t me ex-boyfriend talk to me??” It’s a frustrating experience, that’s for sure… especially if he’ll LOOK at you in social situations, but won’t TALK to you. It sucks to feel ignored, doesn’t it? So what should you do? If you’ve been texting him and it’s not … Read more