Should I Give Him an Ultimatum?

should you give your boyfriend an ultimatum to marry you? Maybe yes... maybe not - depends on some very important factors

Sometimes, things come to a head, and it may feel like it’s time to issue some ultimatums in your romantic relationship. Ultimatums should occur after a long and thorough thinking phase; they should never be rash or impulsive. After all, if you’re prepared to offer him an ultimatum, you need to be prepared to live … Read more

Ever Miss a Guy That Was Horrible To You?


It’s a weird phenomenon when you KNOW you shouldn’t be with a certain guy, and you don’t even want to be with him, but yet you have these moments when you actually miss him.

Have you ever experienced that?

It’s not abnormal to have moments of missing your ex…

Ever missed an ex that was NOT good to you? Here's what might be happening I’ve been in relationships that were 100% wrong for me on so many levels…. probably even bad for me…and sometimes, I have these moments where what we had comes back to my in such a vivid and happy way that it just plain freaks me out.

It brings me to a shuddering questioning realization, “Oh my God, what if I was meant to be with him?”

After reading up on the topic and really thinking about it, I’ve learned that those feelings have very, very little to do with the guy in question OR that relationship, but everything to do with ME.

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My Ex Won’t Talk To Me – What Should I Do?

Many times readers email me and ask, “Why won’t me ex-boyfriend talk to me??” It’s a frustrating experience, that’s for sure… especially if he’ll LOOK at you in social situations, but won’t TALK to you. It sucks to feel ignored, doesn’t it? So what should you do? If you’ve been texting him and it’s not … Read more